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Pre-disposition vs choice - you decide!
Should prospective parents be able to determine their child’s gender?'No'    
Posted by:  Merys  (View the author's original article) 2/2/2007 5:18 PM
Ah, the ethics of medicine - this was what I signed up for!
 
With the days of sexual discrimination past (we hope), should gender really affect an individual throughout their life?
 
So the question is: what does gender determine?
 
Gender can determine career, may have an influence on paternal rights through custody of children and can pre-determine different diseases; but should we have a choice in it?
 
Take gender in medicine (no please, take it) - although it shouldn't still happen, women are still finding it difficult to become surgeons due to family commitments and potential prejudice. Figures from WIST (women in surgical training) highlight that while up to 70% of medical students at university are female, only 6% become surgeons.
 
Equally, it's unlikely for a male to work as a bra fitter due to gender (googling male bra fitter brought up some unusual links, so I can't help you out there I'm afraid).
 
In health, gender can have vast polar effects - men are far less likely to get breast cancer than women, and cannot get cervical cancer due to different anatomy. Equally, woman are unlikely to suffer such blatantly embarrassing effects through puberty as men, and are (obviously) not going to be susceptible to prostate and testicular cancer. It's a balance. Does the answer lie in hermaphroditic offspring?!
 
If you could choose for your child, which would you prefer to pre-determine them for through gender - breast cancer or prostate cancer? Would you want to be responsible for making that decision?
 
From a personal point of view - I know that I want a huge host of children, and that I would ideally like 1 boy and 5 girls. That doesn't mean I wouldn't be happy with 3 and 3 or 4 and 2. I would happily accept whatever I was given (although I may have to hurt 6 girls going through puberty!). I also would have to consider my own personal career plans. As a (potential) female hospital doctor will I have the time to raise a family, or will my career hit a wall due to my gender?
 
By chosing the gender of your child you would have to balance the potential effect of diseases and career prejudice (for example) for the rest of that child's life. Could you handle being responsible?
 
It's a balance, and a difficult decision, yet ultimately we should have the decision removed from us and let fate take its hand.
 
If we start with gender choice, where would we stop?
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Re: Pre-disposition vs choice - you decide!    By mhmoud on 2/3/2007 10:28 AM
l love the life

Re: Pre-disposition vs choice - you decide!    By Isaac on 2/3/2007 3:49 PM
Yes, there is anything bad. We can decide our child's sex without beig God, only avoiding a choice the nature will take, taking it ourselves. No more dissappointed fathers with their son's sex! This is better for all!

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Re: Pre-disposition vs choice - you decide!    By Davy on 2/3/2007 4:24 PM
We decide which embryos live and die and end up in freezers everyday. Why should we leave it to chance which goes in the bin and which one lives? We decide whether to wear a condom or take a pill. Why should we shirk this extra responsibility? When a couple decide to have a child, particularly approaching IVF or fertility treatment, they know that they are working against the odds. They may only have one chance, let them try and get what they want. The rest of the world will provide the other 7 or 8 billion chances. See my blog, "Playing God".

Re: Pre-disposition vs choice - you decide!    By Tsolum on 2/4/2007 7:05 AM
The question you ask is simple, No!
China has been for a years a one child state per couple and the choice has been overwhelmingly for a male child. Now China has a problem, what to do with all those male children without the ability to marry. The army usually is the answer, and what to do with a strong army? Does not take much imagination to think that question through.

Re: Pre-disposition vs choice - you decide!    By nizam ali on 2/4/2007 10:05 AM
to God belongs everything in the heavens and the earth and in between.He has planned everything that is taking place and is to take place.we are just acting out what he has planned.accept his will and you will find peace.like my wife tells me ,life is not how you make it ,is how you take it.

Re: Pre-disposition vs choice - you decide!    By Emmie on 2/4/2007 10:32 AM
As seen in China and India - bad for both society and children, so no. There are some limits of freedom, I hope.

Re: Pre-disposition vs choice - you decide!    By Merys on 2/4/2007 1:58 PM
Since this is my article, I should explain that it has been posted on the wrong side. This is a NO article, and shouldn't be here. I'm waiting for the administrators to change it for me!

Re: Pre-disposition vs choice - you decide!    By Mdzomba on 2/7/2007 9:39 AM
Parents should not in anyway chose the gender of their children. In a biological point of view, this will create inbalance and may lead to population decrease in the long term. With one gender perfered to another reproduction will be left to the few compatible couples or single parent families. On the other hand it would be economically good in the short term, for the lower the population the more jobs thus less problem in the society. In the long term shortages will arise and migration will take place to fill in the space left.

Re: Pre-disposition vs choice - you decide!    By Panenko Vitaliy on 2/8/2007 12:17 AM
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Re: Pre-disposition vs choice - you decide!    By Pi on 2/9/2007 9:28 AM
Your final sentence sums up the whole very succinctly. The answer is, of course, that there will be no stopping whatsoever; clones and chosen-gender children will become the norm; intelligence checks will be used on the eggs and sperm DNA strings before impregnation and long time business planning for expansion of the working machine will be considered before anything else. We will end up with a cross between Gattica and Brave New World, which is hardly a prospect worth looking forward to.

Re: Pre-disposition vs choice - you decide!    By Lexie on 3/2/2007 2:25 AM
I 100% agree with this article. We should not be able to choose our children's gender because what if the child were to find out you chose their gender? Would you want to discuss such a subject with....anyone? Also what if because you chose a girl over a boy vice versa; the child was completely out of control. You would have to deal with the "what if"s I had of chosen a boy/girl. Just let nature take its course.....


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